Hi there,

It’s always struck me as kinda strange, how sex chats are rampant, especially since the internet became a common household item, and yet talking to someone about your day, or how you’re feeling isn’t possible unless you were paying for a therapist or counsellor.

And yet, loneliness is one of the most common social problems experienced today, especially among people over fifty years of age. The problem is worsened for men because while women are more likely to have at least one close friend they can talk to about anything, many men feel they have to spend time with their friends wearing a mask of “I’m okay,” when in fact the truth is, they really want someone to talk to – to have a heart to heart with.

I know that feeling of loneliness. I’ve been living alone for the past nine years. But the odd times I’ve gone onto dating sites, hoping to find a new partner, I was met with dick picks and not a lot else. I know there is more to men than that, but clearly what I was looking for wasn’t going to be found on the internet.

And I should let you know, straight up, right now, I am not looking for a new relationship. That is not what this is about. I have happily filled my life with my business (I work from home), I spend time with my adult children and grandchildren, and my spare time is taken up with my new passion which is currently learning to get the most out of my new desktop diode laser machine. I love keeping busy, but I love talking to people too. And I’ve been told I’m a very good listener.

Maybe you’re in a similar situation. My ideal client will be happy with their lives for the most part, but just wants the chance to talk to a friendly someone once in a while – about feelings, or simply sharing their day. Maybe you’ve got a problem you want to bounce off someone, maybe you just want to hear a friendly voice. The service can be as anonymous as you like. I’m not going to mind if you use a fake name, although I will need some form of contact details including a first name, so I can contact you for our appointment.

Please note, I am not a counsellor, therapist, or anything like that. I am simply an older woman, with a friendly personality, who is happy to provide a willing ear and pleasant conversation. If you are suffering from depression, anxiety, or similar, please consult a professional.

How It Works

I wanted to make this system as simple as possible to cater for people across most time zones. I live in New Zealand, but am happy to chat to people from Australia, America, the UK or Europe. To make an appointment, simply click one of the Paypal links below.

When you make payment, let me know in the notes section of the payment:

1. Your preferred date and appointment time (including time zone please)
2. Your preferred method of contact – currently I can call you directly on the phone or via Zoom.

If for some reason your appointment time isn’t available, I will email you directly to the email address provided by Paypal letting you know alternative time and dates. Then on the specified time and date, I will call you, and we can chat.

Please use the “Send to Family and Friends” option on Paypal when making your payment and allow at least two days (forty-eight hours) when specifying your appointment time. That way you are more certain of getting the time aSind date that suits you.

Paypal Links

30 minute chat – $75

60 minute chat – $120

The Email Option

For some people, chatting with a virtual stranger is way outside of their comfort zone, so I have recently introduced an email service as well. All you need for that is an anonymous email address (you can easily set one up through gmail.com or gmx.com) and once you’ve paid your fee, you will be asked to email the address provided. I will respond. It’s as simple as that. You can opt for a single friendly email, twice weekly emails, or an email a week for four weeks.

Single email – $10

Two emails (one week) – $15

Four emails (one email a week for four weeks) – $30

And that’s it everyone. Thank you for visiting my page. If you have any questions at all, you can email them to lisa@chattingwithlisa.com. I look forward to chatting with you.

Hugs

Lisa.